It is getting harder for a woman to know how to be feminine. Grace, charm, elegance, and etiquette are skills that are rarely passed down through the generations anymore.
So you want to know how to be more feminine and attractive. Here are 7 tips on how to be feminine in a modern world.
Tip One: Look After Yourself
There is nothing soft and feminine about someone who doesn’t take good care of themselves. Your hair may be dirty and greasy, or your nail polish is chipped and flaking. It is very obvious to other people that you do not think enough of yourself to take the time to look after yourself: physically, mentally, and emotionally.
There is nothing self-sacrificing about becoming more feminine because it takes a lot of time and effort to be feminine and attractive. You have a lot of parts that need caring for, such as hair, makeup, dental hygiene, cleanliness, hair removal, eyebrow shaping, nail care, skin care routines… and that’s just the beginning.
So, to be a feminine, soft, and girly woman you will put yourself first when it comes to your self-care. When you are then feeling calm and beautiful, you are able to share your radiance with other people.
Tip Two: Dress Femininely
Your dress style should be neat, flattering, and in tune with your personality. Your clothes are always freshly laundered and you make sure that there are no rips and tears in any of your clothing.
As a feminine woman, you know that there are many things to consider when purchasing clothes and you are very careful with each purchase. Your clothes are appropriate to your age, career, and social circle. You know that you do not have to expose a lot of flesh in order to be attractive. By understanding your body shape, you are able to ensure that you present yourself in a flattering light.
Tip Three: Hair and MakeUp
Your hair will always be well looked after and you ensure that you have a hair style that flatters your face shape. Your hair is kept brushed and neat. You have some flexibility in your haircut so that you have a variety of ways to wear your hair.,
MakeUp should never be overdone in the way that it is often seen today. As a soft and feminine woman, your MakeUp is tastefully and neatly applied. Lipstick should be kept in your handbag so that you can freshen it up several times a day.
Tip Four: Use Poise
The way that a feminine woman moves her body is controlled and gentle. You move with grace and style whether you are standing, sitting, or walking. Your posture is upright, with your shoulders back, stomach in, and chin held parallel to the floor. When sitting, you keep your back straight and avoid crossing your legs, except at the ankles. When walking, you try to keep your feet in line with each other.
Poise in character is also how women are proven to be feminine and charming. You rarely lose your temper and treat everyone with fairness. You are known to be reliable and trustworthy.
Tip Five: Learn Etiquette
As an attractive and feminine woman, you will need to learn to ‘rules’ of behavior within society. These are the small actions which show that you have been educated in the ways of polite society.
There are etiquette rules to cover just about every situation. The important ones to learn are greetings, proper introductions, dining etiquette, and shaking hands. Etiquette should be taught with the intention of making everyone feel comfortable in your presence.
Tip Six: Speak Femininely
Listening to a woman speak femininely is always a pleasant experience. You ensure that all that you say is passed through the three gates before spoken: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? If your words would not pass these gates, you do not speak them. The tone of your voice is calming and your words are articulated clearly.
You are comfortable in managing a conversation to ensure that everyone is comfortable and feels includes. Your speech is never about displaying your own ego.
Your phone manner is kind and helpful. You always say “Please” and “Thank You”.
Tip Seven: Study How to be Feminine
Finishing Schools have been around for over a hundred and fifty years to teach the feminine arts. Switzerland used to be the place that the wealthy would send their young girls for preparation into society. Institut Villa Pierrefeu is Switzerland’s last traditional finishing school.
You can commit to furthering yourself through a study of the feminine foundations at an online finishing school. The Feminine Foundations Program covers the practical aspects of how to be feminine and graceful in a modern world, empowering women with the tools needed to be able to embrace their inner femininity.
Do you feel that you are expressing your femininity?
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